After you have kids, life does a complete 180. It’s like anything that can change will, and suddenly you’re adapting to a whole new way of life. Although motherhood brings many joys, it also throws a lot of punches, and it’s easy to let those punches beat you down. You know, the ones like not fitting in your pre-baby jeans, not showering for three days straight, and putting off a haircut so long your hairdresser thinks you moved overseas. Not to mention struggling with feeling desirable, making intimacy with your partner difficult. Plus, piling on the mom-guilt for every little thing that doesn’t go as planned as you navigate this whole mom thing.
While taking time for yourself tends to go against the mom code, it should really be the main mantra. You’ve likely heard it before, but it bears repeating; you can’t really take care of anyone else if you don’t take care of yourself. But, as moms, we have so much trouble doing anything for ourselves. However, giving yourself the gift of your own time, showing yourself some love, and telling yourself “you’re worth it” are critical factors in being the best mom you can be.
That’s why in honor of National Self-Esteem Month (yep, it’s a thing), it’s time to focus on you.
When you have a healthy self-esteem, you’re more apt to forgive yourself more, face challenges with enthusiasm, and avoid unhealthy traps, like comparing yourself to Pinterest moms. The result? A happier you, which means happier kids.
So, if you need a little push in the right direction, check out these 10 quick ways to boost your self-esteem, so you can be the amazing mom that you were meant to be!
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